Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Conley Christmas Update: 2009 in Review

As 2009 draws to a close we wanted to take some time to wish you a wonderful holiday season, to reflect on the year’s highlights, and to keep you apprised of the ongoing adventures of Darren and Larissa.

2009 was a year of settling in and feeling comfortable in our new country of residence.Although we moved to Qatar in August 2008, it took us a while to start feeling like we were at home there. Once the cooler weather came, we spent more time exploring Qatar. We familiarized ourselves with most of the restaurants and shops in our neighbourhood, as well as in the Souq, or traditional market. We also got out of the city for outings that included digging desert roses (rock formations) in the middle of nowhere and renting a 4-wheel drive vehicle to explore the country outside of Doha. We really felt like we’d made Doha home while showing the sights to Darren’s parents who visited for a week in April. We had a great time hosting them and would love to do it again for anyone who wants to visit the Middle East!

We both settled into our jobs this year as well. Darren started his Qatari teaching career in January by teaching two classes of male students who are trainees of Qatar Petroleum. Since then he has continued to teach these QP trainees and has also taken on audio recording responsibilities at the college. Larissa spent most of the year outside of the classroom working on various curriculum-related projects, and has enjoyed the change of pace at work. Perhaps the greatest evidence of our feeling of being settled into our new teaching environment is the well-received presentation we gave at TESL Ontario in Toronto this December in which we discussed some of the challenges and rewards of teaching Arab and Muslim students.

When we think back on 2009 we might also classify it as the year of traveling. In March we spent a weekend in Dubai, and another one in Kuwait. In April we traveled all around Jordan. And when the summer came we visited family and friends in Zambia and various parts of Ontario. Then in the fall we were off for a week in Prague. We feel really blessed to have been able to see so many different areas of our world this past year. Each destination introduced us to new experiences, sights, people, and ideas, and we’re grateful for each of them.

In 2009 we also developed a new appreciation for relationships. We were able to reconnect with some old friends through our travels and via the Internet. We also got to visit with good friends in Ontario while we were “home” in the summer and at Christmastime. In addition, we met interesting people with whom we hope to keep in touch in Prague and Zambia. And of course we continue to get to know our new friends in Doha better.

The most difficult part of living abroad for us is being away from our close friends and family. We’ve learned to appreciate our valued relationships and while we hope to develop similar friendships in Qatar, we’ve also renewed our desire to maintain our ties to our “kindred spirits” back in Canada.

2009 was also a year of creative exploration. Larissa tried her hand at silk painting, Palestinian embroidery, pottery, and belly dancing. While not naturally talented at any particular one, she enjoyed experimenting with each of these art forms. Darren took a short course in Adobe Flash and spent countless hours designing and re-designing his website www.shirtbug.net. Designing t-shirts has provided a good creative outlet for Darren, even if it may never become a source of income.

One last thing that 2009 will be remembered as being is a year of preparing for change. While on summer vacation in Canada we found out that we’re expecting our first child in April. We’re thrilled and nervous and really have no idea how different 2010 will be. Through doctors’ appointments, research (i.e. reading books, talking to people with children, etc.), and Larissa joining an ex-pat mum’s group in Doha, we’re trying to prepare as much as we can for this drastic change in our lives. We also moved from our apartment to a 3-bedroom villa on a compound in order to surround ourselves with other parents and children. We’re looking forward to how we will grow as a family over the coming years.

So, it’s been a full and wonderful year. We hope your 2009 was something worth remembering, as well. Thanks for joining us on our journey. We truly are more thankful than ever for each of our family members and friends.


MERRY CHRISTMAS!
Love,
Darren, Larissa & Baby Conley

Saturday, December 05, 2009

Christmas Theme Songs

Sometimes things are made better by having a theme song. Television shows, for example, are often tied to the theme songs. Just hearing the first few notes of the introductory song of a series I used ot watch brings back (usually) fond memories of days gone by.

Events are the same way. Imagine the 1998 FIFA world cup without Ricky Martin's Cup of life! I'm not a hockey fan but even I know about the uprising over the Hockey Night in Canada theme song.

Since music is a huge part of Christmas, it seems fairly appropriate for it to be accompanied with a theme song. I'm not talking about a worldwide theme; I'm talking about a song that sums up one's emotional/physical/spiritual state at a particular moment in time. This kind of theme song usually appears unexpectedly and just "clicks". Last Christmas I came across a song that resonated with the place in life Darren and I were at that time.

It was the first year we were both away from our families and traditions at Christmas. Graciously, my long-lost friends welcomed us into their home in Turkey for the holidays so we were not all alone. But it was actually a very nice break that allowed us to contemplate the rituals of the season from a distance. Anyway, this song became my unofficial theme song of Christmas 2008:



This year I've also got a theme song:




The fact that each of these songs come from the same album is not so much coincidental as circumstantial. We only have two Christmas albums here in Qatar (both purchaed from iTunes last November): one by Sarah McLachlan and the other by Sixpence None the Richer. If I want to continue to find theme songs for each year, I guess that means broadening our Christmas playlist next year. Or maybe next year will be a themeless Christmas. Either way, I'll always associate these two songs with our first and second Christmasses in Doha.